TAKING VS. GIVING
What does it mean to be a taker?
To be a taker it means to be a person, who always wants something for himself. He always wants something from people, he always wants to get and his first thought when he starts to talk with people is »how can I get something from him?«
Being a taker is not an easy life. It means to always be scheaming and trying to manipulate the situation to fall into your advantage.
It means not having the freedom to say and do what you really want to say and do. It means being a prisoner of your own life.
It is a horrible place to live in.
What does it mean to be a giver?
Being a giver means to be a person, who doesn´t want nothing from anyone, instead, he is focused on achieving what he wants, but with the frame of »how can I give to these people more?«
His confidence comes from the fact, that he is the one that people need and not the other way arround. He is aware of the value that he has and that he is giving to human beings.
This gives him the freedom of thought and feeling of pride. He is proud of himself and he is constantly increasing the level of value he is giving to people.
Being a giver means giving value and not wanting anything from people.
If you want to be a true giver, you need to forget your own needs and focus only on others.
This will give you freedom of expression and confidence you always wanted.