Have you ever had this happen to you?
You are standing in a club and you see HER, and she is looking at you... And she's almost screaming with her eyes COME HERE!
...And you know that you SHOULD say something, and you even know that she might LIKE you IF you just say "Hi"
...BUT you get that SINKING feeling in your stomach and you just can't make yourself to say anything to her?
If that is true for you, I KNOW exactly how you feel.
I Use To Feel That Way Too!
My name is Phantom, and not being able to talk to a girl was true for me for many years - I would look a girl directly in the eyes, sometimes she even smiled in a sign that she liked me - but I couldn't approach her.
I was frustrated - and so were women who liked me.
This not being able to talk to her was eating me alive inside - every day I felt more and more depressed about the fact that I can't approach women.
I asked myself questions like:
"Why can't I do it?"
"Why can other guys do it easily, what do they have that I don't have?"
"I will never learn how to do this... I will end up alone"
Have you ever felt like that before?
The Turning Point
Then one day I was in a coffe shop, and I saw this BEAUTIFUL girl, just standing there.
She didn't appear that she needs to go somewhere or that she is waiting for anybody.
She was ALONE.
I felt this urge to go and say something to her, but as I looked at her, my MIND WENT BLANK - and I froze.
I couldn't say ANYTHING to her.
I waited some more, and soon she was gone.
This wasn't the first time that this happened, but this time it was different.
Suddenly I felt this pain in my chest, and it was burning inside.
I felt I couldn't breathe, and in that moment it hit me, that I am MISSING out in my life BIG TIME, because I couldn't make myself to walk up and TALK to her.
I felt the tears come to my eyes, and the cashier at the coffe shop asked me if I was OK.
I didn't answer, just looked at the doors and ran away.
As I was running, I made a commitment to myself, that...
...I am going TO FIGURE THIS OUT NO MATTER WHAT!
I decided just there and then, that I'm not going to waste another opportunity again.
I could feel a new wave of energy burst through my body, and I was on the roll.
I got to work and started my research.
I read every BOOK I could find, bought every AUDIO and VIDEO COURSE on dating I could get my hands on - and went to all the popular SEMINARS and BOOTCAMPS.
In fact, I did so many of them, that now I was spending more time studying this stuff than doing it!
In the course of 2 years, I read almost 500 books on the subject of dating, sex and evolutionary psychology - and went through almost 30 courses!
And the courses and books did give me an outline of what I SHOULD be doing or saying...
...But here was the problem -
Even though I now knew what I should say, I STILL couldn't
All the information I found did give me ideas on what I can say (the lines, routines) - But the problem was I still couldn't make myself to actually DO IT.
And now that I knew what I SHOULD say, I felt even MORE ANXIOUS and MORE TENSE than before - because now I felt the pressure to deliver all these "lines".
I'm sure you can relate to this - Knowing what you SHOULD say, knowing all the ROUTINES and PICK-UP-LINES - But then being more confused than before...
I knew this wasn't it, so I continued with my research.
I wanted to eliminate my anxiety about approaching a woman, so I found some programs that were promissing just that.
But most of them gave advice like:
- "Ask a woman for time, and soon you will be able to approach"
- "Visualize yourself talking to a woman, that will help you"
- "Just do it! Who cares what she thinks"
Well, that advice turned out to be a BAD ADVICE.
Even dough I did what they said, my anxiety stayed there, and I STILL COULDN'T APPROACH!
It wasn't untill I found...
...the REAL SECRET to eliminating my anxiety around women!
You see, the reason those programs don't work is because all of them are based on you having A CERTAIN VIEW OF LOOKING AT WOMEN.
What do I mean by that?
Well, if you have anxiety around approaching a woman then you probably see women as SCARY, intimidating and powerful.
You problably see them as this PERFECT creatures who have no insecurities or flaws.
I used to look at women like that, and untill I continued seeing women in that way, I could NEVER get rid of my anxiety!
The real progress came for me when I understood that...
...the SECRET to ELIMINATING your anxiety around women is in
CHANGING HOW YOU SEE WOMEN.
Up untill that point, I always viewed hot, attractive women as SCARY, intimidating and powerful.
Because of their looks, I viewed hot women as these PERFECT creatures, who have no flaws or insecurities of their own.
I thought that I was the ONLY ONE who felt insecure and shy.
But during my research, I discovered something that would later turn out to be...
The MOST IMPORTANT DISCOVERY about women
in my entire life!
Here's what I discovered:
A HOT WOMAN IS MORE INSECURE THAN ANY MAN OUT THERE!
Don't believe me?
Did you know: A hot woman, will take up as much as 3 hours to get herself ready to go out.
Isn't that interesting?
Why would somebody who is already considered attractive spend 3 hours putting on make up and just the perfect hair style and dress?
Well I asked that question to women, and here is the most common answer I got:
"I want to look my best"
Well, what they were actually telling me was:
"I don't feel I look good enough as I am, so I have to put on make up to make me feel good enough"
Here's a lesson for you: A woman is VERY insecure about her looks... EVEN if she is hot.
She spends 3 hours COVERING up how she REALLY looks like.
And tell me, if YOU spent 3 hours covering up who you really are before going out, how affraid would you feel about others finding out how you REALLY look like?
So when you see them all dressed up and looking good like on earth-goddesses, you may think that they are the most confident, fear imposing creatures alive.
In reality, it's the other way around.
The girl that you see in the club getting all
the attention from guys, is probably
the MOST INSECURE in the place!
Hot women are a walking, breathing INSECURE wuss-baggs.
This realization made me start to look at women differently.
Instead of seeing women as scary super human godessess, I started seeing them as ordinary people, who have insecurities, fears and doubts just like me!
And here's how I took advantage of knowing that to eliminate my anxiety of approaching a hot woman:
The reason for your anxiety of approaching a woman is because you focus too much on yourself and on YOUR insecurities around a woman, and you forget that the woman has her own insecurities as well.
And when you focus on YOURSELF and your INSECURITIES, you become even MORE ANXIOUS and MORE TENSE.
Instead, you want to focus on HER, how she FEELS, and her INSECURITIES.
The cure for your anxiety is to understand that a woman has insecurities as well, and feels anxiety about them, and then focus on making her feel SECURE.
The one, most important thing a woman wants you to do, is to make her feel SAFE to be who she REALLY is when she's around you.
But wait, you maybe saying: "I don't know what her insecurities are!"
Well, yes. That's where the Mind Reader helps you.
And here's how the Mind Reader Anxiety
removal technique helps you!
How would you like to eliminate your anxiety of approaching women in the next 57 minutes?
The Mind Reader is not some ordinary technique or just a general explanation on how women work.
The Mind Reader is a powerful technique that goes deep inside your MIND, and it INVOKES that feeling inside of you.
Imagine you could INFILTRATE a woman's mind, and discover EXACTLY what her insecurities are.
Imagine if you could do that by just listening to a tape I made for you, in no more than 57 minutes?
So how does the Mind Reader Technique work?
I've designed the Mind Reader so it's extremely easy for you, but still very effective.
It's so easy that you literally...
Just Press Play And Feel Your Anxiety Melt Away!
When you get your hands on the Mind Reader technique, you will only require to press play and feel your anxiety melting away.
It's literally that easy.
The Mind Reader works in 3 parts:
PART 1: THE INTRO SESSION (30 minutes)
In this intro lesson you receive a lesson from me that explains exactly how the mind reader works and how women think and feel. In this lesson, I invite into the woman's world and let you in on her secret thoughts and feelings.
This lesson is important because it is foundational to what you need to know in order for the mind reader to fully work. I prepare you for transformation in here. I lay the foundation for your new found confidence with women.
This will prepare your mind for the Mind Reader exercise, so when you do the Mind Reader it works for you guranateed.
In this first introductional session, you'll learn:
- What does a woman REALLY think when she sees you, which will give you an advantage when you want to approach her - because now you know what she's thinking.
- What's the most common mistake that you're doing when you want to approach a woman - and then you don't approach her, that most guys have no clue that they are doing - and you'll learn what to do about it
- What are the secret insecurities of every woman - and how you can then "manipulate" knowing that to your own advantage
- One quality that women crave for in men - that's not obvious and not many men know it!
- The real, hidden cause for your approach anxiety and how to turn it into your weapon for confidence
PART 2: THE MIND READER TECHNIQUE (12 minutes)
After you go through the introductionary session, you will get your mind reader technique. The mind reader technique consists of 4, fill-in-the-blanks, specifically designed questions for you that are going to transform how you view women for EVER.
It took me full 7 years to discover these 4 KEY questions. I started with a list of 322 questions, and over the years I've drilled everything down to only 4.
This exercise comes in a simple format that's extremely easy to follow. No pain, no drills or affirmations - Just fill in the blanks - and let the magic happen.
In the mind reader technique, you'll:
- Change how you look at women for ever. You will go from viewing them as scary creatures to people who have their insecurities and doubts as well
- You will learn your universal "opener", not something I will teach you, but something that comes naturally for you. Hint: It begins with "Hi"
- You will learn exactly what a woman wants you to say to her the first time you meet her
- Laugh at your previous insecurities you had around women, and think "how could I ever had anxiety about approaching a woman"
PART 3: THE MIND READER ANXIETY REMOVAL VISUALIZATION (15 minutes)
This part is the most important one. Without this part, the technique wouldn't work. This is the part where you will actually experience an EMOTIONAL shift, where your anxiety will literally melt.
After you go through the Mind Reader exercise, you will understand the concept on a logical level. But, for your COMPLETE transformation, you need to make an EMOTIONAL shift as well, so you actually FEEL different.
After you lay down the headphones and you come back from the hypnosis, you will be able to stand up, get up and approach any woman you want...Guaranteed.
This Visualization exercise was tested and tweaked on more than 122 men from all over the world. I tweaked it untill it worked on EVERYBODY.
With the Mind Reader Visualization, you will:
- Feel your approach anxiety melt away
- Feel that your confidence around women skyrocket
- Develop a sense that you exactly know what to say to a woman when you see her
- Secret benefit: You will have your masculinity switched on and subsequently developed through time. This is a secretly added benefit that will help you develop into a man you always knew you were.
- When you come out from the Mind Reader visualization and you open your eyes, you will be able to GET UP, WALK OUT OF YOUR DOOR and START A CONVERSATION with the HOTTEST WOMAN you see.
Total time = 57 minutes
I don't want you to go on with your life, thinking about "O how nice it would be if I had that girl..."
I don't want you to be the guy who's spending his friday nights at home, feeling sorry for himself.
And I don't want you to just look at those beautiful women from the side, craving for them and looking other guys approach them and take them home.
I want you to approach, have fun with them and ESCAPE from this ANXIETY PRISON that you're in.
I was where you are right now - and I don't want you to be there anymore!
Look at the clock right and notice the time right now.
Really look at it.
In literally less than 57 minutes from now, you can be rid of your anxiety of approaching a woman.
You have the power right now, in the next 57 minutes to change the direction of your dating life for ever.
You can walk out in less than an hour from now and talk to the most attractive woman you see on the street - and feel comfortable and confident while you do!
Just Imagine Being Able To:
- In less than 57minutes from now, put down your headphones, open your eyes, and walk through your doors and talk with ANY woman you see EASILY
- While Talking to them, feel comfortable and relaxed, like you're talking with your best friend
- Make women laugh and make them feel like they're safe and secure to be who they really are when talking with you
- Get women's numbers easily, and get them calling YOU - because you've made them feel so comfortable
- Impress your friends when you can approach the hottest woman you see on the street
...And that's just for starters!