The Natural's Way: How To Ignore The Usual Dating Advice And Win The Girl By Being Yourself
Let's face it...
This isn't the first or the last book on dating success. During the last several years, there was an explosion of books written on the topic of dating.
So what makes this book so different from any other out there?
Well, if you study any of the books written for dating success, you'll quickly discover that most authors made dating seem much more COMPLEX than it really is.
Most books go into so much detail in telling you what to do, that it can make your head spin.
But what if you just want to start a conversation with a girl behind the counter of the place you get coffee every day and get a date with her?
Do you really need all that information?
Is getting a girl to go on a date with you and have fun really THAT difficult and complex?
Isn’t there an easier, less complex and more NATURAL way?
After researching it for a long time, I've discovered that women are mostly attracted to ONE key quality in a man that EVERY one of us has NATURALLY within, but very few of us know how to SHOW it.
That quality is being a natural YOU.
You see, if you're honest with yourself, you probably behave very different when you're around women than when you're around your friends.
Maybe you're more tense, or you have some anxiety...which makes you act like NOT you.
In this book, I'll show you how you can STOP behaving like not you, and start behaving like your natural self...and attract women automatically.
In this book you'll discover...
… and more and more!
It is my promise that after you read this book, you will know how to:
So if this promise excites you, and this is something you want to learn TODAY, then let’s get started.
Read the first chapter below
Let's start this journey with a question:
What do women find attractive?
What is it that women love about men?
Why are they attracted to certain guys and pity others?
Why do they do crazy things for some guys and leave other guys crying and writing love songs about them?
I remember watching a TV show about a guy who was named the "Modern day Don Juan". Unfortunately, I don't remember his name or the TV he was on. But here's what happened.
They announced that they were going to reveal a real Don Juan of today's age, a guy who seduces women.
Then they showed him walking down the street.
When I saw him, I thought they were joking.
The guy was skinny, wearing a sweat suit and a baseball cap.
Trust me when I say, there wasn't ANYTHING special about him.
Nothing special at all.
So I was about to switch the channel, when they showed a very attractive woman on the phone, standing there, talking.
So this "Don Juan" walked up to her, leaned on the wall next to her, and said, “2 minutes. Tell her you'll call her back.”
The girl looked at him, got confused… then hung up the phone, and started TALKING with him.
Now the question is, WHY?
Why did she start talking with him, when we all know women aren't attracted to skinny guys with baseball caps?
Was he famous?
Was he attractive like Brad Pitt?
Was he rich beyond belief?
Did he say something hilariously funny or profound?
So what's the difference between him and some average guy on the street, who merely observes women from a distance?
To be able to answer this question, we need to take a closer look at…
What we generally believe women find ATTRACTIVE
Some people say that women want guys who look good. So if a guy looks like Brad Pitt, he will get any woman he wants.
But Brad Pitt himself once said that until he was famous, he had challenges with getting a date.
So is looking good really the key to having women be crazy about you? I think it might help, but I don't think your looks are THE key.
What about having money? If you're rich, women are attracted to you, right?
After all, Zsa-Zsa Gabor, a woman known for her scandalous affairs said, "No rich man is ugly".
But then we see guys like our Don Juan, who have no money, and are still able to get the girl.
So is money really it?
I think money can help, but it's not THE key.
Fame How about being famous? This surely must be it. If you're famous, women love you.
If you're a famous rock guitar player, or a member of a famous rock band, you have as many women as you want.
But do you really NEED to be famous to get the girl? After all, was the Don Juan I mentioned before a famous person?
No, he wasn't. He was just another guy from the street. So fame can help, but it's not the reason why you couldn't get the girl.
What about certain personality traits, like humor, fun, dominance and social skills?
Are these qualities attractive to women?
If a guy can make a girl laugh, she'll probably like him and be attracted to him.
If he can show he has a lot of friends and that he's popular, women will probably find him more attractive.
However, our Don Juan didn't say anything too profound or funny to show some special personality traits, and still was able to meet the girl.
So what's difference?
Why was he able to get the girl to stop what she was doing, and talk to him?
Although I agree that women DO want men who are famous, rich and handsome and have certain personality traits, it is NOT the DECIDING factor on whether you get the girl or not.
What Are Women *REALLY* Attracted To
The difference that made the difference was that even though our Don Juan was just ANOTHER guy from the street, he was able to show CONFIDENCE.
Confidence is the KEY to being an attractive man.
Women are primarily attracted to your CONFIDENCE, and secondary to whatever you think they are attracted to, be it fame, money, looks or other personality traits.
When a guy can approach a woman with BALLS out, state what he wants in an assured and congruent manner, he gets her ATTENTION, and differentiates himself from ALL the other guys, who are timidly walking around, ashamed for even liking a woman.
Again, I do think things like fame, money, looks, and personality traits can help you be more attractive to women, but they aren't the KEY.
The deciding factor is your CONFIDENCE.
But what exactly is confidence?
While we all kind of get the idea of what confidence is, if you ask random people, most of them can't give you a direct answer.
They say things like "being confident means that you feel good about yourself", or "that you can comfortably talk with others"…
But what is confidence really?
And, is there a way to gain confidence without having money, fame, good looks or some extraordinary personality traits?
Yes there is. Let's go to the second chapter to find out how.