"Let Me Show You the 4 Core Elements Necessary to Have the Kind of Success With Women You Always Wanted"
Hi, my name is Omir and I help guys get more dates with the kind of women they want.
I know, it sounds like a line from a bad joke. But for the past 7 years I've worked with guys all over the world, helping them have a more successful dating life.
And right now, I want to ask you a very important question...
Have you ever thought about what makes some guys have all the success with women they want, while others are strugling to even talk to a girl?
Have you ever asked yourself what is the difference between a "natural", a guy who is naturally good with women, and a guy who, despite trying to learn various "pick up lines" and methods, still can't get a girl to go out with him?
Well for the past 7 years, I've been in the "dating game", researching and exploring and trying to find the *secret* to success with women and dating.
I was literally obsessed with this question
"How come some guys can get those amazing hot women, while others struggle to even start a conversation with a girl?"
I've read all the books, spent countless hours in poorly lit seminar rooms, listening to guys explaining the "ultimate formula" for dating sucess.
No matter WHAT I tried, I just couldn't figure it out.
This was me just couple of years ago.
Just look at how I looked like. And who takes a picture next
to a huge jar anyway?!
I was STRUGGLING with women.
If I went out with my friends, I was usually the guy in the back, just observing hot women from the side...never gathering the guts to walk over and say something.
If I did manage to mush out couple of words, with my nervous image I didn't convince any ladies to come and crash at my house for the night.
I was desperate and lonely.
So at some point, I just GAVE UP.
I was convinced that the women thing was too complicated, that you had to be born with the skills to talk to girls, and if you weren't RICH or had amazing LOOKS, women wouldn't smell you.
But as I kept looking around, I started noticing something weird.
I started seeing guys who were, for a lack of a better word, downright UGLY and still walk around with beautiful women.
So I thought "It's probably the money. They are ugly, but have money".
But when I looked deeper into it, I realised that even the guys who were broke, still had HOT women following them, and dying to get their attention.
The more I researched, the more it became clear to me, that guys who have success with women usually don't have ANY big outside advantage over other guys.
What I notices was that they were doing something fundementally different that made them successful with women.
So what was it?
The answer ended up pretty obvious. It was right there in front of me the entire time, I just didn't see it.
It's kind of like when you're looking for your glasses and can't find them anywhere, and then you find they were on your nose the whole time.
The thing that I eventually noticed is that all the guys that had the success with women ALL had this one key trait.
It was CONFIDENCE.
At first, I thought that the reason why they had confidence with women was because they ALREADY had women.
It NEVER occured to me that their confidence was the REASON why they had women, and not the EFFECT.
This was a HUGE breakthrough for me.
I realized that the *thing* I should really study and master was NOT some new line on how to talk to women, but my own CONFIDENCE I had around them.
Once I Realized That CONFIDENCE Was the Key, I Set Out to Figure Out How to Build That Confidence With Women.
I did the most sensible thing I could probably do at that point. I found 3 guys who were
incredibly confident with women.
I was determined to figure out what made their confidence tick, so I made it my point to spend as much time as possible with them... and just SOAK in their behavior and mindset they had with women.
I probably spent couple of months just hanging out with them, partying and observing
from the side as they made out with girls in the first 30 seconds of meeting them.
I watched as they went out to "talk" to her in private while I waited next to the bar.
And as I was around them, certain things about them began to stand out.
For example, all of them had a certain way of thinking about women. They had their own
way of understanding what they wanted...and how to give that to them.
I remember one saying to me, "Women and men are completely the same - and we
all think we are completely different. We guys love sex, and we think women don't - but in
reality, women love it MORE than we do..."
Another one said to me, "Women really want to be around a man. Try dancing around
her like a girl, and she'll be a bitch. But walk over there, say "Hey, my friend and I want
to take you home tonight..." and she'll give you a different response. They love it when a guy takes charge."
None of them saw themselves as "below" any woman or have "lower status" than her.
They all had some sort of explanation why they were much more awesome than the woman.
They valued themselves, their time and their enjoyment FAR MORE than any hot woman they
Sure, they enjoyed hot women. But if a girl was a pain in the ass to be around...they'd ditch
her in a hot second.
Slowly, but surely, the picture of what confidence with women was about began to crystalize to me.
I began to see more and more of the things they did that made them completely different than
the rest of the of guys.
Eventually I distilled everything they were doing different into 4 Core Elements that made up
confidence with women.